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Happy Anniversary Baby, I Got You on My Mind

Five years ago today we all know what happen. I won’t go over it again. I wish the media wouldn’t either, but I can’t stop that. But this year, on this anniversary, I will make some changes to me. Dear Katrina, This year I will no longer consider myself a failure if I cry when...

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  • RachelAugust 29, 2010 - 10:46 am

    I was thinking about you today because of this anniversary. I’m so glad you wrote this post. Love you. Hugs.

  • JennAugust 30, 2010 - 7:16 am

    Thanks for sharing!

  • SuzySeptember 3, 2010 - 11:11 am

    Sorry I’m a few days behind but you were on my mind that day as well, all day. I love your letter. xoxo

In My Head

I feel all unsettled and can’t quite get comfortable. I have all these amazing things in my life. I have an amazing life, so run back and forth between them trying to settle things, but I just can’t quite touch it. I think about quitting, but I’ve been a therapist, in training to be a...

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  • RachelAugust 11, 2010 - 1:43 pm

    There’s got to be something going on with the moon and people’s cycles this month. It seems to have been worse for everyone I know, including myself. So, I vote for waiting to make these decisions until after it’s over. I don’t doubt that they are all there and all real. But they may seem less intense after the period. So, that’s my two cents.

  • TifAugust 12, 2010 - 3:21 pm

    1 – You should wait to re-evaluate after school starts and you have a week. 2 – not drinking ddp after noon is messing with your mind. Even heroin addicts get a little medication to help out. Wean more slowly. 3 – It is this FREAKIN’ heat! You get brain damage at 108*, you know it’s been hot enough for that! 4 – It’s time to do some work on your second house. That might help. I hate that bathroom faucet so much I just cringe everytime I look at it.

    haha – like how I made it about me?

    I had a really good reply for two days but I never wrote it down and now it is gone. I think I told you, though, right? And you remembered, right? ‘Cause I think I was spot on.

On Keeping My Options Open

I finally bought myself the Crumpler Sinking Barge. I’ve wanted one for like forever, or about year now, which is forever in Erika years, but what ever. Here’s the thing. I thought I needed this pack for quick trips to carry my lap top, camera equipment and a few essentials. I even made sure I...

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  • TifaniNovember 5, 2009 - 7:35 pm

    A new pair of shoes or a new bag – that’s all a girl needs. I can’t believe you waited a year! That IS forever in Tifani land, too. I admire your self control!

All About the Pictures

So I had this anniversary recently. Maybe you’ve heard? And it was incredible. Driving down to New Orleans in this Shooting a trash the dress session ending with this Wandering around Magazine street, shopping and snapping some of the best pictures of my life. Like this one Yeah, I have no idea who he is,...

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  • TifaniOctober 22, 2009 - 2:59 pm

    Those are incredible – yours AND Becky’s. I want to wall paper MY house with them and you don’t even live here.

  • JeffOctober 23, 2009 - 10:45 am

    I’m so glad you had a good time.

    I’m still waiting for my Bread Pudding!!

  • Masked MomOctober 23, 2009 - 3:10 pm

    I didn’t wait til my 10th to trash my dress–I dropped a stuffed shell on it at the reception (Hint: Never serve red sauce at a wedding.), which is just as well cuz I wouldn’t have fit in it at ten years anyway. I agree with Becky–kudos to you both for not only fitting in them but looking great. The pictures were amazing.

  • Becky TOctober 24, 2009 - 12:55 pm

    My, my, what good looking people we have here. Thanks for letting me help you trash your dress. 🙂 It was a ton of fun! And, thanks for your compliments–you are very kind! Looking forward to seeing you again!

  • AnonymousOctober 27, 2009 - 1:06 pm

    What an awesome idea! I’m so glad I stalked your blog today. I love, love, LOVE the pictures. Our 10 year is next year. You may have started a revolution! It will be hard for me to resist copying you. My dress is just collecting dust and I’m too cheap to get it cleaned and preserved in one of those dress boxes. How FUN!!!

That’s My Truth*

I’ve decided to dedicate July, or what’s left of it, to truth. I really like this idea, especially because there is a lot of truths I’m having to learn in my life right now. Don’t get me wrong, things are great, I mean REALLY great. It’s just that they are completely different from how I...

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  • RachelJuly 27, 2009 - 10:31 am

    Thanks for giving me props for the title. I am so completely pumped that you found your bliss again because you’re pretty incredible at what you do. Enjoy the beach! I’m so jealous that I’m not there. I blame you. :o)

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